The Difference Between a Eulogy and a Funeral Script
Introduction
A funeral service is a carefully structured event designed to honour and celebrate a life. But what exactly is the difference between a eulogy and a funeral script? Many people use the terms interchangeably, but they serve distinct purposes within a service. Understanding these differences can help you make the right choices when planning a meaningful farewell.
The Structure of a Funeral Service
Most funeral services follow a general structure, though they can be tailored to individual preferences. A typical service includes:
Entrance & Music: A song or piece of music is played as mourners gather.
Welcome & Introduction: The officiant (celebrant, minister or family member) welcomes attendees and sets the tone.
Readings & Poems: Often chosen to reflect the personality and beliefs of the deceased.
The Eulogy: A tribute that tells the story of the person’s life.
Reflection & Music: A moment of quiet reflection, often with another piece of music.
Committal: The formal farewell, where the body is committed for burial or cremation.
Closing Words & Exit Music: A final message of remembrance and a song to conclude the service.
The number of readings and songs varies based on personal preference, but most services include one or two readings and at least two pieces of music – one at the entrance and another during the reflection or exit.
Where Does the Eulogy Fit In?
The eulogy is the centrepiece of the funeral service. It is a spoken tribute that tells the story of a person’s life – their achievements, personality, values and legacy. It is a chance to honour their memory in words.
A good eulogy answers:
Who was this person? (Key life events, work, relationships, passions)
What did they love? (Hobbies, interests, favourite sayings, quirks)
What made them unique? (Humour, values, stories that capture their essence)
How will they be remembered? (Their lasting impact on family, friends and the community)
A eulogy should bring the person to life in the minds of those listening. It is the moment when mourners can smile, nod and remember exactly who their loved one was.
Why Eulonique Focuses on Eulogies
While the eulogy is a personal tribute that fits into any type of funeral service, the full structure of a service – including prayers, committal words and formalities – is usually determined by the officiant. Religious ministers and professional celebrants often have their own way of leading the ceremony, ensuring it aligns with tradition, faith or family preferences.
For this reason, Eulonique focuses on crafting meaningful eulogies that can be seamlessly included in any service. We also help you select music, readings, and preferred speakers to ensure your farewell reflects your values and wishes.
Need Help Writing a Eulogy?
If you’d like a professionally written, heartfelt eulogy that captures a life well lived, Eulonique is here to help. Get in touch to discuss how we can honour a life, in words that last.
